Time Lapse

Earlier this week, one of my sisters informed that my parents planned to visit Cebu because they wanted to consult a medical specialist. When I asked for further details, she mentioned that my father has some health issues that need to be addressed. I decided to ask my parents themselves when they arrive here in Cebu City.

I was able to talk to my parents today, and I learned that my father has a thyroid problem which may lead to goiter if it worsens. We talked about the prescribed medications, and the implied costs that are related to these prescriptions. My mother was confirmed to have cholesterol problems, but was lucky enough to have a normal blood sugar level.

Despite these findings, we went to the nearest Shakey’s branch to have our dinner (my treat). We talked about how my other siblings are doing, my father’s job, and my upcoming graduation (which would hopefully push through).  A dinner does provide a conducive environment to start conversations like this.

It was under the relatively bright light of the pizza parlor that I was able to closely observe both of them. Liver spots have started appearing on my mothers face, and the fine lines under her eyes have become more pronounced. There are now additional wrinkles on my father’s forehead, and his eyes look even more tired than usual.

They are nearing the age of retirement. But somehow, I feel that I have not made any significant development in my life. This may serve as a challenge for me.

Lent

For the past few years, I haven’t been able to spend time with my family during Holy Week. But it strangely felt okay for me. I would have been bored to death in our too peaceful rural area. At least here in the city, I have the internet to keep me preoccupied.

With my housemates going to their respective homes for the Holy Week, I had the house all to myself. I’m not too keen with following the Catholic traditions related to this season. I’ve become agnostic over the years. So, no Stations of the Cross for me, prayers, etc. If there is anything I could possibly do, this would be reflecting on how I might become a better person for this year.

My housemates would arrive later, and our place would be a little lively then. By next week, it would be my turn to go to our province. My sister would be celebrating her birthday, and it has been a tradition on my part to attend the celebration, which also serves as a moment wherein I can visit my family. I would have to stand being bored to death for a few days by that time.